To my ladies...

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Andisiwe Mthengwane, Ziphozihle Aliva, Sivuyisile Silevana, Zuki Tom, Aphiwe Mrazuli, Nomakhaya Maxhela, Palesa Mhambi, Qhama Ntsomi, Khensani Motileni, Gcobisa Mzilikazi and Noluyolo Ngodwane. Having you guys as sisters has been beyond amazing. Each of you portraying their own personalities, that keeps me awake and missing each of you.


To Andy, Zipho and Sivu. You guys became our true friends from grade 10. The level of understanding we all had with each other was remarkable. The bond we shared is still very present even if we are distant from each other, but I know a re-union is still to come. It felt like we have known each other forever. Your presence is forever imprinted in our lives. We understood the true meaning of friendship when we met you guys. We are blood sisters forever. You can follow Andy on her blog @www.blackboldvoice.blogspot.com

To Aphiwe and Zuki. Two lovely ladies I met in 2010 at Fort Hare. Aphiwe and I met unexpectedly, I can’t even recall properly, but I know we met through Gcogco. Upon meeting her, there was that get to know stage *laughs* she was really weird and I loved it alot, I knew I was gona have a ball with her. From then onwards our friendship grew, each year marking a level of growth, not only as persons but Spiritually. I learnt a lot from her as far as church is concerned and her courage was and still is very inspiring. 

Zuki on the other hand, is a character herself, I could write a book about her filled with Oprahs quotes, she can recite them in her sleep *laughs*. I have reaped a lot from this lady, she has inspired me so much. Was my tutor for first year and she was the best. She excels in all that she does and I believe that she has a lot to offer for the country and the world. My very own ‘THULI MADONSELA’. Love her. I thank her for pushing and believing in me.

Nomakhaya (Bantwana), Q and Maleta. I hijacked them from my sister *laughs*, yes her friends are mine and vice versa. Amazing people. So real. So united. So warm. And so loving. Time spent with each of these ladies never seems enough. Bantwana’s personality is so genuine, sometimes I just wonder how she puts it together. She’s angel sent from heaven I tell you. She’s amazing, beyond description, she is one of a kind. And has definitely been a great friend to my sister. Love her for that. 

Maleta, oh man! Where do I begin. Such a sweetheart, so open minded, loving, extremely caring and very motivating. I love her. Always feel like just looking at her and smile all the time. Beyond description. All I can say is I see more in her, a whole lot of maturity that I don’t think she too realises. Q is a shorty like me *laughs*, my twin when it comes to height. Very warm personality. An immense love for children and family, she’ll make a great wife someday. And has been a really awesome friend. I am grateful to being introduced to her.

Then you have G (Gcobisa) and Mayoza(Noluyolo). A cheer every morning is what I receive when I meet up with these lovely ladies. They have been sisters to me, ever there when I needed them, even in my dullest moment. Constantly reminding me of their presence in my life. Love you ladies.

To KNck (Khensani). The last born, our youngest sister. Very determined, ambitious young lady who lets no opportunity slip her way. She was the one of students who challenged me as a tutor when I tutored her class for ‘Introduction to Law’, which was where I met her. From then onwards we grew closer and closer. And bonded so much as lil sis and big sis. I see a bright future for this Minnie pie. You can also follow KnCK on her blog @www.desideratanova.blogspot.com.

May the goodness of the Lord mould each of us, perfect us to fit in corners cleared out for only us to dwell in, and in there too Uphold the Glory of the living God. He willed it that I meet up with each of you. I thank Him above all! Love my ladies!

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